Peek Inside Our Emotional Toolbox

Do you have a set of tips and tricks you use to feel better when you are having a hard time?

I’ve built my own toolbox over the past 7 years of self-discovery, and I recently hosted a meetup to ask other people what helped them too.

Here’s what we all came up with.

The tools are in 5 categories: Spirit, Technology, Mind, Lifestyle, and Biology.

And book recommendations are at the bottom of the post.

Hope it helps! Feel free to share your own tips too.

1. Spirit Tools

  • Mindfulness
  • Zen
  • Compassion
  • Acceptance
  • Meditation
  • Quiet reflection
  • Altruism
  • Gratitude and appreciation
  • Forgiveness
  • Patience
  • Open heart
  • Breathing
  • Letting go, surrender
  • Presence

2. Technology Tools

  • Brain sensors (EEG, neurofeedback)
  • Virtual reality
  • EMDR
  • Devices (MindSpa)
  • Mental health apps (3 minute mindfulness)

3. Mind Tools

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
  • Non-Violent Communication
  • Boundaries skills
  • Positive psychology
  • Importance of negative emotions
  • Living by values vs. goals
  • Visualization and intention
  • Having backup plans
  • Separating reaction from action
  • Enjoying experiences vs. things
  • Immersion therapy
  • Internal Family Systems therapy
  • Focusing
  • Coherence Therapy
  • Hypnotherapy
  • Shifting perspective/perception
  • Regression Therapy
  • NeuroLinguistic Programming
  • Human Strengths and Virtues (Seligman)
  • Four Energies

4. Lifestyle Tools

  • Exercise (Strong app, 7 minute workout app)
  • Nutrition, cooking at home (https://www.lighter.world/)
  • Time in nature
  • Social connection
  • Relaxation
  • Hugs and touch
  • Laughter
  • Ergonomics
  • Self-care
  • Love and support
  • Pets
  • Music
  • Dance (ecstatic dance)
  • Meal planning (use Trello, have fall-back options)
  • Art and creative expression
  • Journaling
  • Teaching others
  • Routines
  • Co-working in community

5. Biology Tools

  • Medications
  • Psychedelic therapeutics (Iowaska)
  • Nootropics
  • Supplements (vitamin D, Magnesium)
  • Sleep
  • Somatic experiencing
  • Probiotics
  • Emotional Freedom Technique

Book Recommendations from the group:

2 Replies to “Peek Inside Our Emotional Toolbox”

  1. The four-energies typing system is the only system that seems to integrate aspects of personality with body and mental characteristics. And it’s the only one that claims a hard-wired genetic basis. But I have to say that other personality typing systems have been of immense benefit to me. These include Yungian typing (e.g., MMPI), the Enneagram typing, and Luscher color testing. Moving on to body-metabolism testing, I have found that Revici’s anabolic-catabolic system, the macrobiotic acid-alkaline system, the fast-slow oxidizer system and the sympathetic-parasympathetic system to be useful. I have not found the blood-typing system to be of use, but others have. Other suggestions?

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